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What personal finance principles should you live by?

Originally published February 20, 2020 · Refreshed January 22, 2023

A handful of personal finance principles hold up regardless of how much you earn or what stage of life you’re in: track your net worth, pay yourself first, avoid comparing your finances to others, budget consistently, set specific goals, and spend on what you actually value. None of these require a complicated system — they work because they’re simple enough to actually stick with.

Here’s what each one means in practice.

Track your net worth

Your net worth — everything you own minus everything you owe — is one of the clearest indicators of your overall financial progress, more useful in many ways than tracking income or spending alone. Checking it regularly, whether monthly or quarterly, gives you a concrete sense of whether you’re actually moving forward, rather than just guessing based on how your bank balance looks on any given day.

It also works as a kind of financial diary. Looking back over months or years of net worth snapshots shows you the compounding effect of good habits in a way that’s hard to see day to day — which makes it easier to stay motivated even when progress feels slow in the moment.

Net worth also gives you a more complete picture than income or savings alone, because it accounts for debt too. Someone with a high income but growing debt can actually be losing ground financially, even while their bank balance looks healthy — something that only becomes visible once you look at the full picture.

Pay yourself first

Paying yourself first means directing money toward savings and investments before it has the chance to get spent on anything else — treating your future self as a fixed, non-negotiable expense rather than whatever happens to be left over at the end of the month.

It’s a simple idea, but an easy one to ignore in practice, especially early in your financial life before the habit is established. Setting up automatic transfers to savings or investment accounts on payday is the most reliable way to make this actually happen without relying on willpower every single month.

Don’t compare your finances to others

It’s natural to notice what other people have — a nicer car, a bigger house, more frequent vacations — but comparing your finances to someone else’s is one of the fastest ways to derail your own progress. You’re rarely comparing your actual financial picture to theirs; you’re comparing your reality to their highlight reel.

Trying to match someone else’s visible lifestyle, funded by debt or by draining savings, doesn’t get you ahead — it just makes your own financial position weaker while theirs may not be as strong as it looks either.

This principle has gotten harder to follow, not easier, as more of daily life plays out online, where what people choose to show rarely includes their debt, their stress, or their actual bank balance. Measuring your progress against your own goals and your own numbers is a far more reliable compass than measuring it against anyone else’s visible lifestyle.

Budget consistently and live within your means

A meaningful share of households across every income bracket live paycheck to paycheck, and carrying significant credit card debt is common even among people who earn a solid income. The common denominator usually isn’t income — it’s the absence of a consistent budget.

A budget doesn’t need to be elaborate to work. What matters is using it regularly enough that it actually shapes your spending decisions, rather than existing as a spreadsheet you build once and never open again. Households that budget consistently are, in effect, telling their money what to do instead of finding out where it went after the fact.

Set specific financial goals

Vague goals like “save more” rarely survive contact with real life. Specific goals — the kind that are specific, measurable, achievable, realistic, and time-bound — give your money an actual destination, which makes it much easier to stay motivated and much harder to quietly drift into overspending.

Without a clear goal attached to your savings, it’s easy to lose focus and let spending creep upward without noticing. A defined goal, with a number and a deadline attached, keeps that from happening.

Spend on what you value

Even with a solid budget and clear goals, you’re still going to spend money — the goal isn’t to spend nothing, it’s to spend intentionally. Value-based spending means directing your money toward the things that genuinely add value to your life, rather than spending reflexively out of habit.

When you spend out of habit rather than purpose, it’s easy to accumulate a long list of small, forgettable purchases that don’t add up to much satisfaction. Redirecting that same money toward the handful of things that actually matter to you tends to produce more satisfaction from the same amount of spending, not less.

Revisit these principles as your life changes

None of these principles are meant to be applied identically at every stage of life. Paying yourself first might mean a modest automatic transfer early in your career and a much larger one once your income grows. Your specific goals will shift as your priorities do — from paying down student debt, to saving for a home, to eventually planning for retirement.

What stays constant isn’t the specific numbers — it’s the underlying habits: knowing where you stand, prioritizing your future self, avoiding comparison, budgeting consistently, setting clear goals, and spending with intention. Revisiting each of these periodically, rather than setting them once and forgetting about them, is what keeps them useful as your circumstances evolve.

Put these principles into practice

None of these principles require a financial background to apply, and none of them work as a one-time fix — they’re habits, not hacks. Personal finance doesn’t have to be complicated to be effective; it’s usually the small, consistent choices, repeated over years, that end up making the biggest difference. Building a foundation around habits like these is one of the most reliable ways to steadily raise your overall financial standing over time.